So right off the bat they were simply ignoring the fact that Catholic Church was expressing an opinion, which is why I responded by leaving a comment that said basically "lighten up". I suppose in the minds of the authors, they do not have the right to their own opinion unless it is politically correct, or agrees with their view. So I'll skip the part where I recite the First Amendment of the Constitution, which covers religious freedom as well as freedom of speech and go right to their accusation that the words are "hurtful and grievous".
I mean, there is not a hint of hatred or personal condemnation in the message they conveyed on their sign that they posted on “THEIR PROPERTY”, only one that is consistent with the church's long standing position that marriage is between a man and a woman.
The Biblical account shows that after the creation of the first man, God said: "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make him a helper suitable for him". (The key word here is suitable)
At this point God could have created another man for Adam, but he chose instead to create a special creature, with a special set of "plumbing" and a special "brain" designed specifically to compliment him physically and fulfill his needs, both physically and emotionally. Any man and woman who has ever been married will confirm this, if they are willing to be totally honest.
The Biblical account of the creation of the perfect "helper" for man ends with God bringing the woman to the man for the first marriage by saying:
Genesis 2: 24 For this cause a man shall leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave to his wife (have sex), and they shall become one flesh
Getting back to the sign, though, St Xavier's had every right to post that message on "THEIR PROPERTY"
The person that posted the second sign on “THEIR FENCE”, however, was totally out of line and had no right to do that what-so-ever. That sign says: “You may not be welcome in the Church, but you are in the community. Spread love, not hate. With it was attached a rainbow balloon.
Monsignor Gerard O'Connor of St Francis Parish explained that the message was meant to show where they stand on the hot button issue of same sex marriage. “There's no hatred in the gospel of Jesus Christ and there can never be. We've got to do everything out of love”, said O'Connor to WBZ-TV. “That's what the church teaches…We understand people disagree with us, but we do it out of love. We never said we hate anybody”
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